For Enhancing Your Orgasms:The G-Spot Toys and Dildos
Once you’ve become comfortable using a vibrator on your clitoris, there are two different directions it might be fun to explore: either using a firm the G spot toy to also deliver firm pressure against your G-spot, or else using a dildo so that you can enjoy a fuller and more satisfied feeling while using your vibrator. Before beginning, please keep in mind that any toy you penetrate yourself with is going to feel better if you first apply a little water-based lube to it: good lube choices are covered a little later in this guide.
We realize a lot of fuss gets made about the “G-spot,” and not every woman finds pressure on this area of their vagina to be enjoyable, but the people who like it often find that they reallylike it, so please bear with us for a quick recap…
Basically, the G-spot is an area on the front wall of the vagina (i.e. in the direction of your belly) about two to three inches in (i.e. just beyond the pubic bone), which particularly when you’re very aroused may feel a little different from the area around it. One way to find and stimulate your G-spot is with a partner, using his or her first two fingers inside you to press firmly upwards, and perhaps stroke the area of the G-spot with a slight “come to me” motion. The other way to find and stimulate your G-spot is with a rigid curved toy.
Get the The Archer toy if you either already know you like extremely firm G-spot pressure, or are having trouble finding your G-spot. On the other hand, if you don’t own any sort of vibrator but know you definitely want something that can stimulate your G-spot as well as your clit, then the Stubbies Nubby-G may be your best bet.
Although G-spot stimulation isn’t something that’s enjoyable for every woman, if it works for you then the point is to either deepen and intensify the orgasms you get from your vibrator by stimulating your G-spot as you approach and go through your clitoral orgasm, or else to enjoy the G-spot stimulation as a sensation and source of orgasmic release completely on its own.
Tips: the first big tip about G-spot stimulation is that it’s probably only going to be fun once you’re aroused, and the more aroused you are the more fun it may be. The second big tip about G-spot stimulation is that the pressure may need to be quite firm and focused in order to work for you.